Another day, another fresh hell

So today was ALMOST a good day. My sweet sister-in-law took over today with the folks, taking mom to see dad in his new place. I guess they had a lovely afternoon, but as she was trying to leave Mom in her apartment at the memory care, mom got extremely upset and begged to go home with her. So my sil called me to ask if I thought that was a good idea. My husband, my HERO, got in the car and went over there to calm Mom down. This is just dreadful.